One thing I realized a long time ago was we are all children at heart. When we raise children, we remain children at heart. Our mind grows, affordable mink lashes, expands, our bodies show signs of aging but our hearts remain childlike.Ssrnt
Although it would appear otherwise when we get around cranky, ignorant people, they are the ones carrying around the most childlike tendencies. Unfortunately, it is childhood hurts. It is because of a misunderstanding(s) from their past that they behave the way they do. What is even more unfortunate is many many people get caught in that persons crossfire and are forever affected.
It would be very similar to getting a snake bite. The angry snake, because he believes you have entered his territory, affordable mink lashes out and injects his venom into a part of your body. The snake now feels vindicated and you are left with a lot of hurt, a fear of snakes and a mental scar. If the snake didn’t feel threatened, he wouldn’t have lashed out, right?
We don’t always know what will threaten another and therefore how one reacts to situations is not our problem. What we need to concern ourselves with is whether or not we chose to let it affect us.
Many people display less than desirable behavior. If we can look beyond it to their inner child and distance ourselves, we will soon find much less drama and hurt in our lives. This does not mean agreeing with it, condoning it or justifying it. This is simply for the purpose of your personal growth.
Think about it this way. Have you ever lashed out at someone, they really did tick you off, but you realized at a later date, you were lashing out because of something going on within you? Well, Imagine that person taking everything you said to them literally. You approach this person at a later date and they are never the same toward you. In your mind you may wonder why they can’t get over it.
This is what we do daily. Expect more for yourself. Don’t buy into other peoples affordable mink lashes and become aware if you are dishing it out. Others do not deserve your insecurities.
Change is about awareness. One step at a time and miracles can happen.
Suzanne Jones is a certified Hypnotherapist who believes “When the student is ready the teacher will appear” She would love to be that teacher, and teach through her own real life trials. It is because of the numerous events in her life she chose this field, believing she has a wealth of experience to share and perhaps educate.